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OK, it's official. Obama is black. Nevermind that his mom is white. Nevermind that he was raised by his white grandmother. I see this attitude somewhat frequently, including in my own house! My daughters much more often than not will say they're Asian despite my obvious whiteness (their mom is Taiwanese). This doesn't seem to happen with other mixed races. As far as I know Tiger Woods has never said he's black nor has he ever said he's Filipino; he's always made it clear he's a mix. Has anyone else noticed this? Does anyone here have a secret white component he/she doesn't usually 'fess up to? I'm wondering if perhaps it's because 'White' is such a sweeping category that it usually has no specific cultural associations, unless it's used in conjunction with a word like 'supremacist' in which case the associations are negative. Is the white race similar to a white page; utterly nondescript until it's written upon and then, as Gandalf pointed out in a conversation with Saruman, no longer white?

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  • Joined 6/18/03
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  • Post #1
  • Originally posted Tuesday, April 6, 2010 (2 years ago)

Interestingly enough, I always say I'm white, even though I'm half Hispanic.

Even my job would like me to change my status with the Human Resources department so the company can look more diverse. But, I really don't identify with my Hispanic side. I am white, I was raised in the whitest part of America, etc.

So, I guess I don't see it as a bad thing.

I see being "white" as being part of a large majority and something pretty bland. There's not a lot of significance to it. So by putting myself down as "white" on my forms, statistically I don't really make anyone look better or worse, nor do I give myself a leg up or leg down. I like it that way. I don't want to be treated differently because my father happens to be Hispanic.

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  • Post #2
  • Originally posted Tuesday, April 6, 2010 (2 years ago)

Well Shagbaby as someone who has the mixed ancestory of being half white/half asian, I usually just refer to myself as Euroasian. (Its a lot shorter then: Part German/Italian/Swedish/Chinese/Japanese/Filipino/Spanish)

Link Related:http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eurasian_%28mixed_ancestry%29

But an interesting point related to your topic is the fact that my brother and myself were raised in the household of an Asian mother and an European mother, much like your own household. However we each respectively embraced a different part of our respective cultures. My brother identifies more with the Asian part of his heritage, whereas I am the opposite and identify more with the European part.

Personally, while I tell people I am Euroasian I identify more with being white just because besides dancing Tinkling and looking part Asian I don't really feel connected with the culture. I think that is what it comes down to for most mixed people as well.

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  • Post #3
  • Originally posted Tuesday, April 6, 2010 (2 years ago)
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  • Post #4
  • Originally posted Tuesday, April 6, 2010 (2 years ago)

http://www.rhapsody.com/joe-williams/ijustwanttosing

"It's not easy being white" - Joe Williams

Well somehow nothing seems to be the same Sometimes I don't seem to be as cool as I was Maybe it's the nature of the biz Well I think I know the trouble, and I will tell you what it is....

It's not easy being white, it's a struggle just to get your rhythm right, and these days when gettin' down is the thing to do You can sing white 'til you're blue in the face & wake up in the morning just to find you've been replaced It's not easy being white, feels so wrong it can't be right

Now I don't want you thinking I'd complain 'cos lord knows nothings ever going to stay the same I can take the good things with the bad But I have narrowed down the problem, and I think it's kinda sad

It's not easy being white, you don't sound good saying words like dynamite and you try & be so hip the way you dress first you try to be so hip & funky, then you overwind up with a hunky funky mess It's not easy being white, feels so wrong it can't be right

Well talkin' all this weirdness makes me grin There's so many categories that I don't fit in One day on my tombstone they will scrawl Why he was too tall for a midget & too short for basketball

It's not easy being white, they can pick you off too easy in the night You can waste your summers lying in the sun Still you don't look like each other & you're only called a brother by your mothers other son It's not easy being white, feels so wrong it can't be right

It's not easy being white, feels so wrong it can't be right

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  • Post #5
  • Originally posted Tuesday, April 6, 2010 (2 years ago)

The President and everyone else is allowed to self-define how they represent their ethnic / racial heritage in this country. Being Black is a societal construction as much as a biological one.

He's not "half-White." He's Black, as this country defines it.

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  • Post #6
  • Originally posted Tuesday, April 6, 2010 (2 years ago)
  • Edited on Tuesday, April 6, 2010 1:27 pm (2 years ago)

The thing is that it's not like being half white and being raised by whites really stops people from treating him like he's a black guy, because he looks like he's a black guy.

If Obama were a white skinned guy with half black genes you wouldn't be seeing nearly the amount of racially-charged craziness. He looks like a black guy, so he doesn't really procure a lot of the advantages of being white in this society. He has had some pretty big advantages but he's also had to work that much harder to get where he is because he has dark skin. He's had to deal with the world treating him like a black man, so I have no problem calling him one.

Edit: what Rik said. It is a societal construct.

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  • Post #7
  • Originally posted Tuesday, April 6, 2010 (2 years ago)

It seems obvious to me why your daughters say they're not white. The Asian genes are dominant so they probably look more Asian than white.

Great article on Tiger Woods and race from the Economist in 2001 http://www.economist.com/world/united-states/displaystory.cfm?story_id=E1_GVGTDG

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  • Post #8
  • Originally posted Tuesday, April 6, 2010 (2 years ago)

By the way I've seen the word Hispanic be used in ridiculous ways.

The Spanish speaking world is so ethnically diverse that it means nothing. In the current Department of Labor categorizations, I've seen a blonde, blue-eyed Brazilian who speaks Portuguese be classified as Hispanic. You will regularly find many Germanic Brazilians throughout Brazil, especially around Porto Alegre (south). In a similar vein, Argentinians of Irish or Italian heritage (70% of Argentinians are of Italian origin) are Hispanic. And I don't mean Sicilian or Southern Italian, which most Americans associate with the Italian look (due to the unbalanced number of southern Italians who immigrated). Many Italians are fair skinned and light haired.

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  • Post #9
  • Originally posted Tuesday, April 6, 2010 (2 years ago)

My mother is white. I never knew my father, except to know that he was a drug dealer and convicted criminal. I was raised by an extended white family.

I checked Black on my census form as well. Why? Because I am. Perhaps more importantly, I came of age when one drop still made you black. And I'm a generation past Obama.

Kalman

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  • Post #10
  • Originally posted Tuesday, April 6, 2010 (2 years ago)

I realize this is not central to the rthread but there's actually been a minor blowup about the fact that Obama selected Black on his census. What was he supposed to do - pick two or three options? Could you imagine the blowup then? Face it, Obama is going to get criticism if he picks brown or black shoes.

Kalman

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  • Post #11
  • Originally posted Tuesday, April 6, 2010 (2 years ago)
  • Edited on Tuesday, April 6, 2010 3:09 pm (2 years ago)
Response to zeno in post #8 Show

Indeed, Hispanic covers a diversity of races and cultures. (Some Mexicans identify with Caucasian ancestry from Spain, others with Native American ancestry from right where they live; Some Cubans also identify with Spanish ancestry, while others identify with African ancestry; etc.)

FWIW - the part of the U.S. Census form where you identify race is now "check all that apply". Identification as Asian Indian, Chinese, Filipino, Japanese, Korean, Vietnamese, Native Hawaiian, Samoan, "Other Asian", and "Other Pacific Islander" each have individual check boxes under "race". Hispanic/Latino/Spanish is in another part of the form, separate from race. The Census people decided to go that way because "mixed" is well on the way to becoming the dominant racial/ethnic group in this country.

So it's all a "social construct". FWIW, there are many, including myself, who believe that at least in part, Obama chose to identify himself as "Black" (as opposed to "Checked Several Categories, including 'White'") because in the 2008 election identifying himself that way was politically advantageous as the Presidential candidate of the major political party that draws far more votes from African Americans than the other major party.

I see the fact that identifying oneself as "Black" can now have some practical advantages as a small measure of progress. It was only a few decades ago that "passing for White" was common among people with mixed Black and White ancestry.

Also FWIW - I find it interesting that Hispanic/Latino/Spanish, Asian, and Pacific ancestries are the only ethnic categories that are tracked. There is no checkbox in any category for indicating "Ashkenazic Jewish" ancestry. Or Romany or Armenian or Arabic ancestry, among many others that are culturally significant in U.S. society.

Sephardic Jews with ancestry from Spanish-speaking countries have to either identify themselves as "Hispanic" or check boxes based purely on race (e.g. "White", "Black","Chinese", "Asian Indian"). All of the specific races I just mentioned are represented among Sephardic and other non-Ashkenazic ("German") Jews - but by tracking only the racial characteristics of these people, the U.S. Census database gives no insight into the variety of sub-cultures among the Jewish population.

I assume that this problem applies to many other ethnic groups in the U.S. The post I am replying to shows that the U.S. Census is doing a "much less than adequate" job for people with Brazilian ancestry, for example.

I know that Census forms are a pain to fill out, but culture and cultural family history matters. The diversity of world cultures and races found within the U.S. is one of our best assets. It's becoming the way we identify ourselves as a nation and culture. There is much work that remains to be done in documenting/acknowledging/honoring/celebrating that.

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  • Post #12
  • Originally posted Tuesday, April 6, 2010 (2 years ago)
Response to mousethief in post #10 Show

When my wife & I filled out our census we picked two categories for our kids: White & Asian. Why do you think there would have been a blowup if Obama had picked black and white? For many people part of Obama's appeal was that he seemed to transcend issues of race and class. I don't think there would have been any blowup had Obama acknowledged that he is what he is - mixed.

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  • Post #13
  • Originally posted Tuesday, April 6, 2010 (2 years ago)
Response to ShagBaby in post #12 Show

For the exact same reason it was even an issue for an obviouls black guy to select black on the census. Because anything he does will generate controversy from some folks. If Obama had selected White and Black, we'd be hearing about Obama was trying to dis the black community, that he was trying to be cute, trying to have things both ways, etc etc etc.

Kalman

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  • Post #14
  • Originally posted Tuesday, April 6, 2010 (2 years ago)
Response to mousethief in post #13 Show

Yeah, I think that about sums it up. A person in his position can't really "win" with either choice.

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  • Post #15
  • Originally posted Tuesday, April 6, 2010 (2 years ago)

Actually, the fact the Shagbaby sees it within his own house shows us how complex the issue of race remains in America. For him, it's an obvious choice White + Asian = White + Asian. Select both. For his daughters, it might be more internalized, or White + Asian = Not White. This is because we are still wedded to the idea in contemporary America that white is a racial group and a privilege, even though these are artificial creations. So White + X = Not White.

My family tried everything to preserve me as an individual; society had other plans.

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  • Post #16
  • Originally posted Tuesday, April 6, 2010 (2 years ago)

Are we talking purely colors or cultures here as well?

Because in color only... black+white=grey, yellow+white=cream In culture, it's what kalman said... whatever you are comfortable with. You can be 100% Chinese and still black, or 100% Mexican and still white.

For mixed kids, it's really the culture that they are in, since they fit in no where. For example, if Shagbaby's kids were in TW, they'd be white. If the kids were in Alabama, they'd be Asian.

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  • Post #17
  • Originally posted Tuesday, April 6, 2010 (2 years ago)

Eh, it's decidedly uncool these days to be white (even if it's still the majority). Everyone is trying to distinguish themselves.

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  • Post #18
  • Originally posted Tuesday, April 6, 2010 (2 years ago)
Response to mousethief in post #10 Show

I think they want him to pick Indonesian.

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  • Post #19
  • Originally posted Tuesday, April 6, 2010 (2 years ago)
Response to Marcelo in post #6 Show

Ditto. When you try to hail a cab at night, you will always be black.

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  • Post #20
  • Originally posted Tuesday, April 6, 2010 (2 years ago)
Response to RubyMae in post #17 Show

I'm a bit embarrassed to be White. I recognize my "white privilege" and feel awful that good people who aren't have to face stupid discrimination all the time. I feel that same discrimination at the beginning of each school year, when I stand in front of a class full of non-Whites and many treat me like Another Ignorant Whitey until they give me a chance and decided that maybe I'm OK after all. And I'm SURE it's worse for someone who is not White.

And this basically sums up why I feel this way:

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My family tried everything to preserve me as an individual; society had other plans. Kalman
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  • Post #21
  • Originally posted Tuesday, April 6, 2010 (2 years ago)
Response to YellowSchoolBus in post #16 Show

This is part of a U.S. attitude evolution that is still a "work in progress".

On the one hand, it might be a measure of progress that increasingly Asians are regarded as "White". This follows movement in past decades that recast Jews, Irish and Southern Italians the same way.

But even though the category narrows on account of these shifts, the category "White" remains and is considered privileged over the "not-White" category - which increasingly boils down to African-American.

The real attitudinal goal I would hope for in the long-run is a final end to "White" vs. "Not-White". Although most marginalized racial/ethnic groups get to join the "White" club eventually - the very existence of "Not-White" REQUIRES that SOMEBODY has to be labeled "Not-White". In this sense it's a good thing whenever someone with the status of POTUS chooses to embrace the one identification that persistently gets defined as "Not-White". When enough of that happens, perhaps being defined as "White" will lose it's dubious value in our society.

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  • Post #22
  • Originally posted Tuesday, April 6, 2010 (2 years ago)
Response to CafeSavoy in post #18 Show

There's already an Indonesian Obama.

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/7842347.stm

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  • Post #23
  • Originally posted Tuesday, April 6, 2010 (2 years ago)
Response to RubyMae in post #17 Show

There are financial benefits to it; for example for the Bill Gates scholarships non-Hispanic whites are the only ones excluded from consideration--all other races and ethnicities may apply.

Also, the safety "fudge factor" that companies put in place to avoid EEOC lawsuits--i.e., hiring minorities at rates above their general percentage of the population just to play it safe with the EEOC--have the effect of causing reverse discrimination against non-Hispanic whites, as they become proportionally underrepresented.

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  • Post #24
  • Originally posted Wednesday, April 7, 2010 (2 years ago)

Might be cause I'm not from around these parts but I find it unusual that Obama is publicising what he put on his census form.

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  • Post #25
  • Originally posted Wednesday, April 7, 2010 (2 years ago)
  • Edited on Wednesday, April 7, 2010 12:14 pm (2 years ago)
Response to Penguinbob in post #24 Show

No brainer. Publicizing the fact that he only checked the box for "Black" is a way of publicly saying, "Say it Loud! I'm Black and I'm Proud!" and indicating that he does so by choice. It not only sets an example for others, it also gives him a political advantage in the eyes of the African-American community and in the eyes of all who agree with his choice and his decision to make that choice public.

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  • Post #26
  • Originally posted Wednesday, April 7, 2010 (2 years ago)
  • Edited on Wednesday, April 7, 2010 12:31 pm (2 years ago)
Response to Penguinbob in post #24 Show

I read somewhere that the White House only released this information after inquiries from the press. Don't think they actively put this information out.

I agree that individuals have a right to self-identify. However, I think societal expectations also constrain one's choices and whether others will challenge your self-identification or see it as legitimate.

A lot of this has to do with skin color and appearance. If Obama had instead only checked "White" (an identity that he theoretically has equal claim to) I think most people would question the realism of that decision. His checking Black only or Black and White would make more sense to people. A lighter skinned biracial/multiracial person who might be able to "pass" (or, I might add, someone with a last name with no strong ethnic association) probably has more options. It doesn't necessarily makes sense, but it is what it is.

Race is a complicated social construct. And the Census form's attempt to capture this is clunky. There is a distinct question on "Hispanic/Latino/Spanish" folks, which lumps together people on the basis of language tradition including Spanairds. And the race question includes a mismatch of options that include racial categories, as well as ethnic and national/cultural ones--i.e., is Japanese a separate race?

A week or so ago, I believe there was an interesting article in the NY times about how many Latinos with African origins don't at all identify with being Black.

National and global politics can also factor into one's decisions. I'm 2nd generation Taiwanese-American, and there is a slick YouTube video going out from some advocacy organizations encouraging folks in my community to write in Taiwanese in the Other Asian box (as opposed to checking Chinese). Growing up, my parents told us we were Chinese as well as Taiwanese, because they were of a generation where Taiwan still claimed to host the legitimate government of China, and Taiwanese national consciousness was only starting--and even though their families had been in Taiwan for many generations before the mainlanders came. The comments on the Youtube side re that video have gotten pretty heated.

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  • Post #27
  • Originally posted Wednesday, April 7, 2010 (2 years ago)
  • Edited on Wednesday, April 7, 2010 12:33 pm (2 years ago)
Response to catlike in post #26 Show
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National and global politics can also factor into one's decisions. I'm 2nd generation Taiwanese-American, and there is a slick YouTube video going out from some advocacy organizations encouraging folks in my community to write in Taiwanese in the Other Asian box (as opposed to checking Chinese).

This brings in another factor. The chaotic manner in which the U.S. census presents questions about ethnic and racial self-identification opens the door to local and regional political issues creeping into the results. The way people with relatives and/or ancestors in Taiwan respond to the question is based on where they stand on the issue of "reunification" - which in Taiwan breaks down along political party lines. And I won't even try to speculate on how a person with family ties to the original native (as opposed to Han Chinese) Taiwanese culture would deal with the issue of what to write into that box!

(Hmmm ... without seeing this YouTube video, I can't rule out the possibility that it IS a statement of protest from advocates of native Taiwanese culture. Could you post a link to this video?)

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  • Post #28
  • Originally posted Wednesday, April 7, 2010 (2 years ago)

Actually Census data isn't public until it's 72-years-old. So, Obama didn't have to tell the press anything about how he filled out his Census form if he didn't want to.

Of course, he probably didn't think anything of it - but I guess he should know by now that people are going to take everything his does out of context and proportion.

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  • Post #29
  • Originally posted Wednesday, April 7, 2010 (2 years ago)
Response to Racetrack in post #27 Show

Actually, it doesn't have to do with "native" Taiwanese groups--if by native you mean the members of the Polynesian cultures who lived on the island before the Han Chinese came over centuries ago. "Native" is typically used more colloquially to refer families on the island prior to the KMT arriving in the late 1940s. There are also many Hakka in Taiwan, who are considered Han chinese but who migrated to the South centuries ago. They are still referred to as the "guest people" in Taiwan, though fairly well integrated into Taiwanese life, as far as I know.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mcFLfw73O30

Okay, enough about Taiwan. Back to the regularly scheduled programming.

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  • Post #30
  • Originally posted Wednesday, April 7, 2010 (2 years ago)
Response to pocotell in post #28 Show

Oh, I'm sure he knew people would talk about it. And I'm sure he thought about what he picked for his race. As far as I've seen, the only people who don't "think anything of" their race are white.

In fact, in his first book, Obama talked about how and why he came to identify himself the way he does racially. What I remember about it is that as a child he was basically raised like a white person and gave it little thought. But as he grew older, he had no choice but to makes some decisions about it, as his apparent race was a big deal to others, and affected how they reacted to him and treated him.

It's basically what others have said about white vs. non-white.

-- Rachel

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