Originally posted Monday, March 24, 2008 (4 years ago)
Quoted from "David_D"
Quoted from "Marcelo" LA and NYC are weird. They're very similar in many ways, yet so different in others. LA's priorities are different - here it's more about the history and the lifestyle, going to the historical ballrooms, listening to the right music, doing the dance accurately, wearing the clothes, etc. It always has been. I remember in 1999 when you'd go out dancing everyone would be in vintage clothes - they would actually be looking at old Sears catalogues and photos for examples of what to get.
How did LindyGroove fit into that whole dynamic? It seemed like it had a completely different focus the one time I was there (back in 2004).
Dave
Lemme just take a quick aside to answer this question. As I recall, LG started in 2000 or 2001, right as the whole vintage thing was dying down. Back then the big debate was vintage lindy hop vs. modern "groove dancing," or as it was called insultingly, "wiggly-hop." LindyGroove came out of the rise of that, and was more a precursor of things to come. Which is why, I suspect, it has remained so steadfastly popular. It capitalized on the rise of a certain kind of dancer in the marketplace. By 2004, when you arrived the whole vintage/history/recreation stuff was pretty much dormant, save Camp Hollywood and the occasional one-time-only big event.
LA is a big enough place that you don't really have to rely on other venues to support yours. It definitely helps, but there's a huge disconnect between some of the people that go to LindyGroove every week and whether or not they go anywhere else. Rusty's Rhythm Club in El Segundo is the same way - they have their own group of loyal attendees who don't really branch out much. LindyGroove is less like that, but there are quite a few people who don't go to big band events and things like that but who will be found every week at LG - and that's fine, LA is big enough to support that behavior.
It also helps that Lance, who runs LindyGroove, is literally one of the nicest most apolitical people ever. He has managed to run a huge venue without getting involved in the really destructive politics that decimated LA's once-dominant scene. LG is known as a really nice and welcoming place, and a lot of that is due to him and the culture he creates there.
Originally posted Monday, March 24, 2008 (4 years ago)
Quoted from "dennisrodman"
Quoted from "Chivalrous"
Quoted from "NuitsBlanches"
In most parts of the country, the people who can are willing to stay around and navigate all of that will fit into a small booth at the local IHOP. And the dances would, honestly, be rather dull because they would be the 10 or so people in a given scene who all agree with each other and can still stand each other. :roll:
In other words: the New York lindy scene. :lol:
where is there a IHOP in manhattan???
135th and Adam Clayton Powell in Harlem. It's right by my house and always packed.
Originally posted Monday, March 24, 2008 (4 years ago)
Quoted from "billy bakelite" By that I mean, 2 roommates sitting around drinking beer look at each other and say, "Hey Titus, we could put some music on, call ourselves blues instructors, and invite some hot chicks over to grind against and we'd be "the blues brothers who all the chicks want to be around!"
Wait, am I getting dragged into yet another Yehoodi "blues" thread? What gives? :dunno:
Originally posted Monday, March 24, 2008 (4 years ago)
Quoted from "nereus"
Quoted from "America" It's been said over and over by serious dancers, organizer, DJs and teachers even on this board that we're sick and tired of the sexual connotation associated with blues dancing. We understand where blues came from... it was sexual, and while we know this, we're trying to change it.
I don't know all the history of blue dancing, so I'll let someone judge the veracity of that statement, but blues music isn't inherently sexual.
Sorry, let me clarify. The dancing, not the music. I agree with you that the music isn't necessarily sexual. We're 100 percent in agreement with that.
I was referring to blues dancing coming from a sexual place dating back to juke joints and rent parties. Every bit of research/ story telling I've come across (I haven't made it a point to research it) gave the theme of "the girl you took to the party was the girl you were bringing home that night and the dance was a build up for what was to come." But maybe I'm wrong, I'm not an expert on the subject.
Originally posted Monday, March 24, 2008 (4 years ago)
Quoted from "Titus"
Quoted from "billy bakelite" By that I mean, 2 roommates sitting around drinking beer look at each other and say, "Hey Titus, we could put some music on, call ourselves blues instructors, and invite some hot chicks over to grind against and we'd be "the blues brothers who all the chicks want to be around!"
Wait, am I getting dragged into yet another Yehoodi "blues" thread? What gives? :dunno:
Originally posted Monday, March 24, 2008 (4 years ago)
Quoted from "Zenin"
Quoted from "America"
Quoted from "Zenin"
Quoted from "America" We understand where blues came from... it was sexual, and while we know this, we're trying to change it.
Why?
It's no longer appropriate for our world, community, or culture in my opinion is why it's changing. Reaction to the title of this event is proof of this.
What is "It's"? Sex? Sexuality is no longer appropriate for our world, community, culture? Why?
Perhaps our society is becoming much more prudish: I still don't understand even if that is true why encouraging it to become even more prudish would be a good thing. Comments should also probably be limited to the USA rather then the world: Most of the rest of the west isn't nearly as puritanical as we are.
I'll call a spade a spade: I don't understand why it's valuable to cater to the personal hangups of a selective few.
I think we are becoming prudish in the US. This might not be the same case abroad. I won't lie, I had a culture shock when I lived in Spain and I wouldn't call myself prudish in any facet.
The problem is, it's isn't just a selective few with this "hangup" as you call it. We were a nation founded on religion, it's still a huge part of our society. The vast majority of Americans are regularly practicing religious member even if you and I aren't...
Originally posted Monday, March 24, 2008 (4 years ago)
Quoted from "Chivalrous" While I have no problem with anything Keither said, it doesn't sound like an explanation for America's post, which frankly sounds like a ridiculously outdated puritanical indictment of sexuality, period. Which is about the last thing our world, community or culture needs. Among other things, if it wasn't for sex, we wouldn't be here to bitch about sex.
I will allow for the possibility that that's not what she meant, but it sure reads that way.
Sorry if it read that way Chiv... didn't mean it that way.
I was just trying to give a perspective on the situation in a colelge scene that's huge on blues right now. As James said, I have more creepers-per-capita in my little scene than I'd like to admit.
James, I am persueing DJ slots. But sadly I don't have the guts for it quite yet. I've only ever DJed twice, and both times were lindy based at CSU swing... I'm getting there as long as my computer doesn't crash completely like I think it's about to.
I wouldn't call it puritanical, but rather, sick of getting humped when I'm not asking for it. I'm afraid that's a reality for many experienced dancers in college scenes. :) Sorry if I gave off that vibe, and thanks James and Tommy for vouching for my normality.
Originally posted Monday, March 24, 2008 (4 years ago)
Quoted from "America" I think we are becoming prudish in the US. This might not be the same case abroad. I won't lie, I had a culture shock when I lived in Spain and I wouldn't call myself prudish in any facet.
The problem is, it's isn't just a selective few with this "hangup" as you call it. We were a nation founded on religion, it's still a huge part of our society. The vast majority of Americans are regularly practicing religious member even if you and I aren't...
Additionally, I wouldn't call it "prudish" to want to create an atmosphere where:
1) dancing is the primary focus (bonus if to the point where a significant number of attendees are focused on taking their dance skill to a high level and furthering the scene, although I think that is getting more into swinginstyle's concerns and less of AmErica's)
2) attendees are safe from unwanted sexual advances
The lindy scene certainly isn't prudish, but they have managed to create such an atmosphere.
Originally posted Monday, March 24, 2008 (4 years ago)
Um, I think that this is a dangerous line of discussion, and probably needs to end here. I don't feel that people's religion today or prudishness or any of that has anything do with blues dance.
As an event promoter and a friend of lots of the people who make the larger blues events happen, I can tell you that the intent is to desexualize the instruction of the dance and leave the history of the dance unedited. What consenting adults do outside of class is their business.
Did people originally go out dancing to get with someone? Do people still go dancing (even in the swing scene) to get with someone? Yes and yes. Do we teach people sex ed along with a swing out? Nope. Do we teach it with a slow drag? Nope.
Sadly, there are some people who have specifically told me (I've got it in writing) that they feel it's necessary to teach about sexuality within the dance. That's too bad, since it's attitudes like those that directly cause threads like this.
Originally posted Monday, March 24, 2008 (4 years ago)
I just want to note something one of my favorite dancers ever, Christian Thompson, told a workshop back in 2000 when teaching a class on a newfangled dance called "The Balboa" - he said that swing dancing, in all of its glories, was not a "sexy" dance. Tango was a "sexy" dance. Swing (at that time basically defined as Lindy Hop, with Shag and Balboa on the side) was a "goofy" dance, a dance for cartoon characters. That always struck me. "Goofy, not sexy."
Anyhoo, it doesn't really have anything to do with the discussion, but this talk about whether blues dancing is inherently sexual reminded me of that.
Originally posted Monday, March 24, 2008 (4 years ago)
Quoted from "Marcelo" I just want to note something one of my favorite dancers ever, Christian Thompson, told a workshop back in 2000 when teaching a class on a newfangled dance called "The Balboa" - he said that swing dancing, in all of its glories, was not a "sexy" dance. Tango was a "sexy" dance. Swing (at that time basically defined as Lindy Hop, with Shag and Balboa on the side) was a "goofy" dance, a dance for cartoon characters. That always struck me. "Goofy, not sexy."
Anyhoo, it doesn't really have anything to do with the discussion, but this talk about whether blues dancing is inherently sexual reminded me of that.
I agree. I love Swing/Lindy... but it sure is goofy. I don't know of too many other partner dances where the lady's legs are always so open -- spraying the world like a cat. lol
Originally posted Monday, March 24, 2008 (4 years ago)
Quoted from "Beckto"
Quoted from "Marcelo" I just want to note something one of my favorite dancers ever, Christian Thompson, told a workshop back in 2000 when teaching a class on a newfangled dance called "The Balboa" - he said that swing dancing, in all of its glories, was not a "sexy" dance. Tango was a "sexy" dance. Swing (at that time basically defined as Lindy Hop, with Shag and Balboa on the side) was a "goofy" dance, a dance for cartoon characters. That always struck me. "Goofy, not sexy."
Anyhoo, it doesn't really have anything to do with the discussion, but this talk about whether blues dancing is inherently sexual reminded me of that.
I agree. I love Swing/Lindy... but it sure is goofy. I don't know of too many other partner dances where the lady's legs are always so open -- spraying the world like a cat. lol
Originally posted Monday, March 24, 2008 (4 years ago)
Quoted from "brynbryn" We are a scene that's committed to hosting quality events with top notch instructors and music. In my three years at Oberlin, we have hosted workshops that have brought in some of the top lindy, balboa and charleston instructors in the country including Peter Loggins, Nina Gilkenson, Mike Faltesek, Marty Klempner and Val Salstrom among others. ... We hoped to bring in the same level of instruction and music in terms of quality to our scene.
If that's the case, you should have hired instructors who can lay claim to the same level of credentials as Peter Loggins, Nina Gilkenson, Mike Faltesek, Marty Klempner, and Val Salstrom. In the Blues world, that would include people like Damon Stone, Heidi Fite (shameless plug, these two are coming to teach here in a couple of weeks -- Ottawa Blues Blast), Ogden & Amanda, Jerry & Kathy, and even the previously mentioned Mike Faltesek. It does not include people in the category of the instructors you hired.
I don't mean this as an attack on your attempts to run a great event. On the contrary, it just makes me a little sad. It's really not your fault if you think these people are reputable Blues instructors... they've managed to sell themselves as such, very effectively. But the reality is that they're selling a different product by the same name. A product which is not only very loosely defined but also still very much in the experimental phases and, as a result, is substandard. Trying to fight against that is a steep uphill battle.
Which is why I understand the frustrations that are so often expressed by key players in the Blues community. It's really hard to watch your passion and your hard work being misrepresented and slandered. It can become a deeply personal thing, and sometimes it's hard to figure out the best way to handle it.
Despite the been-there-done-that-got-so-many-tshirts-I-can-clothe-a-small-country-in-Africa nature of this thread, I just read this whole thread from start to finish in one sitting. The reason I did that, aside from having nothing better to do today, is because I think some really great insights and suggestions can be recovered from the rubble.
Lead by example
Be a mover and a shaker in the way of creating and supporting events that represent what you want to see more of in the Blues community (I believe all of the Blues supporters in this thread already do this, most of them to a great extent).
Responding defensively will only dig you a deeper hole
When you want to minimize attention to a particular facet that is representing itself as Blues, don't contribute to the fire. No such thing as bad publicity.
Non-judgmental education and expressing hopes for what the Blues scene will one day look like are perfectly viable and acceptable alternatives
Sex sells
It's a reality, and I think we're doing ourselves a disservice the moment we refuse to acknowledge that. The extent to and the method with which it is used as a marketing tool depends heavily on the target market for the event. Most of you have acknowledged that this is a college scene event with appropriately-targetted college humour. It's also been pointed out that involving sexuality in our dancing and related parties seems to be funny, cool, and appropriate when we're among friends. So let's be honest here. Because the way it stands right now, an outsider is likely to see the Blues scene as being composed of two groups:
- The group that does whatever it wants, from body rolls to tango to jello wrestling, and calls it Blues
- The group that is either too puritanical, too naive, or too dishonest to admit that sexuality can or should have any place whatsoever in Blues Dance, and are rabidly fanatical in this opinion
Sexiness is an attribute that has been embraced by other dance communities (latin, WCS, etc.), to their great benefit
Once again, sex sells. People like to indulge in sexy, flirtatious behaviour. But as Zenin pointed out, there's a very big difference between sexy and sleazy or creepy. It takes a certain degree of maturity and confidence to pull off sexy. Harnessing the power of that is a valuable asset. Throwing it away will only work against you.
As for feeling the need to over-emphasize or teach sexuality, that just speaks volumes about how socially-inept swing and blues dancers really are.
Originally posted Monday, March 24, 2008 (4 years ago)
Quoted from "Marcelo" Swing (at that time basically defined as Lindy Hop, with Shag and Balboa on the side) was a "goofy" dance, a dance for cartoon characters. That always struck me. "Goofy, not sexy."
Holy crap, you mean I've actually been doing it RIGHT all these years? :o :dunno:
Originally posted Monday, March 24, 2008 (4 years ago)
Quoted from "Beckto" I agree. I love Swing/Lindy... but it sure is goofy. I don't know of too many other partner dances where the lady's legs are always so open -- spraying the world like a cat. lol
Originally posted Monday, March 24, 2008 (4 years ago)
Quoted from "America" James, I am persueing DJ slots. But sadly I don't have the guts for it quite yet. I've only ever DJed twice, and both times were lindy based at CSU swing... I'm getting there as long as my computer doesn't crash completely like I think it's about to.
A few comments/suggestions:
1) Being new to DJing is no problem. In fact, the less it seems like you know how to DJ a blues dance, the better the response may be.
2) Don't doubt your musical repertoire. I know for a fact that you have the "Apple Bottom Jeans/Boots with the Fur" song because you're the person who introduced me to that. Don't worry if you play it twice, as long as there's at least one playing of "Hotel California" between repetitions.
3) Matter of fact, just play "Hotel California" for four straight hours. The crowd will demand that they have you back the next week. Every guy there, and probably 3/4 of the girls, will want to sleep with you. All at the same time.
4) If your computer crashes, have a backup. Many DJs have their go-to songs all on their iPod just in case they ever need to fall back on it. If you don't have an iPod, bring along any standard radio. Tune to a random station and, if the song makes you want to blues dance, change the station.
In fairness, that was snarkier than necessary and Apple Bottom Jeans is an awesome westie song. I love that FC embraces blues but gawd y'all are nubs :P Well, here's the water... come on, have a drink!
Originally posted Monday, March 24, 2008 (4 years ago)
Quoted from "Chivalrous"
Quoted from "Marcelo" Swing (at that time basically defined as Lindy Hop, with Shag and Balboa on the side) was a "goofy" dance, a dance for cartoon characters. That always struck me. "Goofy, not sexy."
Holy crap, you mean I've actually been doing it RIGHT all these years? :o :dunno:
Ben Yau tells a story to his students about how he was always a goofy dancer...but in hip hop and club dancing the goofier you dance...the goofier you look...and all the girls laugh at you. But in Swing, the goofier you dance the cooler you look, and all the girls adore you! ;-) He's right of course, and it's a great way to get students new and old to loosen up and just go for it.
Originally posted Monday, March 24, 2008 (4 years ago)
Quoted from "Signet" The people who are defending the blues scene and pushing for good blues dancing need to admit that what passes for blues instruction ranges from amazing to laughable. This is going to trickle down and be one of a few factors influencing the skill composition of the blues scene as a whole. Actually I think many do realize this and at least admit it to themselves, but the question is what are they prepared to do about it? A class at a blues workshop can be anything from learning musicality from Steven & Virginie to learning how exactly to rub the tips of your fingers against the back of your partner's neck. The basic it focuses on could be slow drag or it cold be "step, body roll, body roll." You can learn dance connection or emotional connection.
I absolutely admit this. It's why I only agree to attend/promote/talk about events that feature people I know are teaching the real stuff.
Quoted from "Signet" The structure of the ballroom dance scene tends to weed out the bottom rungs of the instructor ladder. Primarily, dance studios are the major source of instruction. They are run by and recruit from professionally trained dancers. In blues, the venues and class locations may be somebody's house, a bar or coffee shop, or any place that has a danceable floor which is rentable to the public. There is not professional review of the scene's instructors. Secondly, there is not competitive differentiation. Don't get me wrong, I LOVE the fact that the blues scene is more social dance-based than competition-based. Dancers don't have ratings and rankings, points, etc. Many great things come of this, and conversely I think a lot of troubles start when social dancing takes a back seat to competitive standing. However, even good choices can have some bad consequences. (Indeed, lindy - which also does not really have a professional review of who can/cannot teach - benefits heavily from such competitive differentiation.)
This is why BluesSHOUT was born. Now, if someone is a champion from BluesSHOUT, you know they're at the top of the scene.
Quoted from "Signet" Whereas in blues, an acceptable instructor bio might be something like "Signet first danced blues at an afterhours party at MOREASSPLZKTHX lindy exchange and has been hooked ever since. His focus is on forming a deep emotional connection with his partner through the dance and his unique interpretation of the music. Everywhere he goes, follows rave about his one-of-a-kind feel and creativity. Now he wants to share his love of blues with you." (or said another way, "Back when he was younger and more bearable to look at, Signet made out with a really drunk girl at some exchange. Even though he's been a part of the scene since 2000, he can't actually dance worth a sh t, but he's learned that he can call standing there and rubbing his follow's arms/stroking her hair his 'style.' Most people think he's crappy and creepy, but there's always some wide-eyed newbie who doesn't know any better. Now, he wants to take your money and, if possible, get a little somethin-somethin on the side.")
SOOOOOOO true, and those bios never fail to kill me a little inside.
Quoted from "Signet" Bottom line is, a sizeable portion of the "blues instruction" out there is probably holding the scene back, and it's difficult for students to know what they're going to get out of an event. I don't know what can be done about that, but ignoring the problem is not in the best interests of the blues scene. (if we believe that the scene's best interest is to move in a more serious/skillful direction)
We're trying our best to offer alternatives and to make it clear which instructors really do know what they're doing, but we can't tell people to STOP teaching (unfortunately), so it's going to take some time to build up a certain critical mass.
As to the whole sexual/sensual argument about blues, my position is this. I should never be told that I HAVE to be sexy/sensual/emotionally connected/whatever other bull to someone just because I said yes to a dance. If it happens, cool. If it doesn't, that shouldn't mean I'm not doing the dance. I'm all for having hot and sexy dances, but I should never be EXPECTED to have one. I'm all for having deep, meaningful connections with people, but I shouldn't be EXPECTED to have that kind of connection with EVERY person I agree to dance with. That's just silly. And creepy. And wrong.
Those of us being called "purists" (which is funny) simply want to be able to dance without those expectations. We want to be able to teach the dance without having to tell people that the ONLY reason to dance is those things. Or that they SHOULD be seeking sexuality/sensuality in their dances. We're against forcing that aspect of the dance, rather than letting things happen naturally, however and whenever they will.
And Beckto - since when is having your legs together more suggestive than having your legs apart? Most strip clubs I've been to feature open legs, not closed legs. :dunno:
Originally posted Monday, March 24, 2008 (4 years ago)
Meh, if I can't connect with someone I'm dancing with at some level (need not be sensual/sexual, but it needs to be something), I'm not likely to make a point of asking them to dance again. Much of the time this comes down to personalities and I believe everyone can't help but to dance their personality. This results in in a few fantastic follows that I just don't enjoy dancing with because we simply have nothing to say to each other dancewise, and some very inexperienced follows whom I adore dancing with.
So yes, for me I do have an expectation to connect in some way with every partner I dance with.
Originally posted Monday, March 24, 2008 (4 years ago)
This sort of dancing is very much inside the box, which is okay if that's your thing. I find that the music and connection in the sense that lindyhoppers use the term isn't necessary for dancing blues. Blues is a freer more spiritual dance that needn't be grounded by such artificial limitations. No steps, just emotions.
Originally posted Monday, March 24, 2008 (4 years ago)
I think you guys are being unfairly harsh on Lucky. He's a really creative, fun dancer with a lot to teach, in blues and everything else. I can only imagine that the college kids at Oberlin will love his style and teaching.
Just because he hasn't competed at BluesSHOUT, or whatever event you dancers deem important this week, doesn't mean he isn't a great dancer.
Gawd, that really pisses me off -- dancing, especially blues dancing specifically, doesn't exactly lend itself to a fruitful career, no matter how talented you are. There are lots of amazing dancers out there who don't get to spend their lives traveling and teaching, who would probably be waayy better than the teachers out there now.
This is how the whole damn Rock-Star thing builds up and out of control.
"If music be the food of love, play on!" - Shakespeare
Originally posted Monday, March 24, 2008 (4 years ago)
Quoted from "Signet" This sort of dancing is very much inside the box, which is okay if that's your thing. I find that the music and connection in the sense that lindyhoppers use the term isn't necessary for dancing blues. Blues is a freer more spiritual dance that needn't be grounded by such artificial limitations. No steps, just emotions.
Hate is an emotion, right? Man, I dance a LOT more than I thought I did. :)
Originally posted Monday, March 24, 2008 (4 years ago)
Quoted from "pocotell" I think you guys are being unfairly harsh on Lucky. He's a really creative, fun dancer with a lot to teach, in blues and everything else.
Just b/c someone has a lot to teach, doesn't mean they should be teaching, especially group love micro-blues (ha!). And who cares if Lucky hasn't competed at BluesShout. Chris Ransdell competed there and that didn't raise my opinion of his dancing.
Quote Gawd, that really pisses me off -- dancing, especially blues dancing specifically, doesn't exactly lend itself to a fruitful career, no matter how talented you are. There are lots of amazing dancers out there who don't get to spend their lives traveling and teaching, who would probably be waayy better than the teachers out there now.
And this cracks me up. I know many dancers that are way better dancers than some of the blues instructors that are getting lots of gigs. Unfortunately, these better dancers are a)not promoting themselves as well b)not prostituting themselves to small scenes (there's still a ponytail bounty, America) c)or spending their time nurturing their home scenes. Frankly, I think the blues scene would have a healthier image, if some people were forced into "early retirement".
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Lemme just take a quick aside to answer this question. As I recall, LG started in 2000 or 2001, right as the whole vintage thing was dying down. Back then the big debate was vintage lindy hop vs. modern "groove dancing," or as it was called insultingly, "wiggly-hop." LindyGroove came out of the rise of that, and was more a precursor of things to come. Which is why, I suspect, it has remained so steadfastly popular. It capitalized on the rise of a certain kind of dancer in the marketplace. By 2004, when you arrived the whole vintage/history/recreation stuff was pretty much dormant, save Camp Hollywood and the occasional one-time-only big event.
LA is a big enough place that you don't really have to rely on other venues to support yours. It definitely helps, but there's a huge disconnect between some of the people that go to LindyGroove every week and whether or not they go anywhere else. Rusty's Rhythm Club in El Segundo is the same way - they have their own group of loyal attendees who don't really branch out much. LindyGroove is less like that, but there are quite a few people who don't go to big band events and things like that but who will be found every week at LG - and that's fine, LA is big enough to support that behavior.
It also helps that Lance, who runs LindyGroove, is literally one of the nicest most apolitical people ever. He has managed to run a huge venue without getting involved in the really destructive politics that decimated LA's once-dominant scene. LG is known as a really nice and welcoming place, and a lot of that is due to him and the culture he creates there.
135th and Adam Clayton Powell in Harlem. It's right by my house and always packed.
Wait, am I getting dragged into yet another Yehoodi "blues" thread? What gives? :dunno:
Sorry, let me clarify. The dancing, not the music. I agree with you that the music isn't necessarily sexual. We're 100 percent in agreement with that.
I was referring to blues dancing coming from a sexual place dating back to juke joints and rent parties. Every bit of research/ story telling I've come across (I haven't made it a point to research it) gave the theme of "the girl you took to the party was the girl you were bringing home that night and the dance was a build up for what was to come." But maybe I'm wrong, I'm not an expert on the subject.
It's the matching pants and hair. 8)
I think we are becoming prudish in the US. This might not be the same case abroad. I won't lie, I had a culture shock when I lived in Spain and I wouldn't call myself prudish in any facet.
The problem is, it's isn't just a selective few with this "hangup" as you call it. We were a nation founded on religion, it's still a huge part of our society. The vast majority of Americans are regularly practicing religious member even if you and I aren't...
Sorry if it read that way Chiv... didn't mean it that way.
I was just trying to give a perspective on the situation in a colelge scene that's huge on blues right now. As James said, I have more creepers-per-capita in my little scene than I'd like to admit.
James, I am persueing DJ slots. But sadly I don't have the guts for it quite yet. I've only ever DJed twice, and both times were lindy based at CSU swing... I'm getting there as long as my computer doesn't crash completely like I think it's about to.
I wouldn't call it puritanical, but rather, sick of getting humped when I'm not asking for it. I'm afraid that's a reality for many experienced dancers in college scenes. :) Sorry if I gave off that vibe, and thanks James and Tommy for vouching for my normality.
Additionally, I wouldn't call it "prudish" to want to create an atmosphere where: 1) dancing is the primary focus (bonus if to the point where a significant number of attendees are focused on taking their dance skill to a high level and furthering the scene, although I think that is getting more into swinginstyle's concerns and less of AmErica's) 2) attendees are safe from unwanted sexual advances
The lindy scene certainly isn't prudish, but they have managed to create such an atmosphere.
- James
Um, I think that this is a dangerous line of discussion, and probably needs to end here. I don't feel that people's religion today or prudishness or any of that has anything do with blues dance.
As an event promoter and a friend of lots of the people who make the larger blues events happen, I can tell you that the intent is to desexualize the instruction of the dance and leave the history of the dance unedited. What consenting adults do outside of class is their business.
Did people originally go out dancing to get with someone? Do people still go dancing (even in the swing scene) to get with someone? Yes and yes. Do we teach people sex ed along with a swing out? Nope. Do we teach it with a slow drag? Nope.
Sadly, there are some people who have specifically told me (I've got it in writing) that they feel it's necessary to teach about sexuality within the dance. That's too bad, since it's attitudes like those that directly cause threads like this.
I just want to note something one of my favorite dancers ever, Christian Thompson, told a workshop back in 2000 when teaching a class on a newfangled dance called "The Balboa" - he said that swing dancing, in all of its glories, was not a "sexy" dance. Tango was a "sexy" dance. Swing (at that time basically defined as Lindy Hop, with Shag and Balboa on the side) was a "goofy" dance, a dance for cartoon characters. That always struck me. "Goofy, not sexy."
Anyhoo, it doesn't really have anything to do with the discussion, but this talk about whether blues dancing is inherently sexual reminded me of that.
I agree. I love Swing/Lindy... but it sure is goofy. I don't know of too many other partner dances where the lady's legs are always so open -- spraying the world like a cat. lol
Yeah it was the hokey pokey of the swing era...
If that's the case, you should have hired instructors who can lay claim to the same level of credentials as Peter Loggins, Nina Gilkenson, Mike Faltesek, Marty Klempner, and Val Salstrom. In the Blues world, that would include people like Damon Stone, Heidi Fite (shameless plug, these two are coming to teach here in a couple of weeks -- Ottawa Blues Blast), Ogden & Amanda, Jerry & Kathy, and even the previously mentioned Mike Faltesek. It does not include people in the category of the instructors you hired.
I don't mean this as an attack on your attempts to run a great event. On the contrary, it just makes me a little sad. It's really not your fault if you think these people are reputable Blues instructors... they've managed to sell themselves as such, very effectively. But the reality is that they're selling a different product by the same name. A product which is not only very loosely defined but also still very much in the experimental phases and, as a result, is substandard. Trying to fight against that is a steep uphill battle.
Which is why I understand the frustrations that are so often expressed by key players in the Blues community. It's really hard to watch your passion and your hard work being misrepresented and slandered. It can become a deeply personal thing, and sometimes it's hard to figure out the best way to handle it.
Despite the been-there-done-that-got-so-many-tshirts-I-can-clothe-a-small-country-in-Africa nature of this thread, I just read this whole thread from start to finish in one sitting. The reason I did that, aside from having nothing better to do today, is because I think some really great insights and suggestions can be recovered from the rubble.
Lead by example Be a mover and a shaker in the way of creating and supporting events that represent what you want to see more of in the Blues community (I believe all of the Blues supporters in this thread already do this, most of them to a great extent).
Responding defensively will only dig you a deeper hole When you want to minimize attention to a particular facet that is representing itself as Blues, don't contribute to the fire. No such thing as bad publicity.
Non-judgmental education and expressing hopes for what the Blues scene will one day look like are perfectly viable and acceptable alternatives
Sex sells It's a reality, and I think we're doing ourselves a disservice the moment we refuse to acknowledge that. The extent to and the method with which it is used as a marketing tool depends heavily on the target market for the event. Most of you have acknowledged that this is a college scene event with appropriately-targetted college humour. It's also been pointed out that involving sexuality in our dancing and related parties seems to be funny, cool, and appropriate when we're among friends. So let's be honest here. Because the way it stands right now, an outsider is likely to see the Blues scene as being composed of two groups: - The group that does whatever it wants, from body rolls to tango to jello wrestling, and calls it Blues - The group that is either too puritanical, too naive, or too dishonest to admit that sexuality can or should have any place whatsoever in Blues Dance, and are rabidly fanatical in this opinion
Sexiness is an attribute that has been embraced by other dance communities (latin, WCS, etc.), to their great benefit Once again, sex sells. People like to indulge in sexy, flirtatious behaviour. But as Zenin pointed out, there's a very big difference between sexy and sleazy or creepy. It takes a certain degree of maturity and confidence to pull off sexy. Harnessing the power of that is a valuable asset. Throwing it away will only work against you.
As for feeling the need to over-emphasize or teach sexuality, that just speaks volumes about how socially-inept swing and blues dancers really are.
Just sayin'.
Holy crap, you mean I've actually been doing it RIGHT all these years? :o :dunno:
Martinis do not contain vodka. —Rachel Maddow
That's fantastic! :lol: Thanks for my new .Sig ;)
A few comments/suggestions:
1) Being new to DJing is no problem. In fact, the less it seems like you know how to DJ a blues dance, the better the response may be. 2) Don't doubt your musical repertoire. I know for a fact that you have the "Apple Bottom Jeans/Boots with the Fur" song because you're the person who introduced me to that. Don't worry if you play it twice, as long as there's at least one playing of "Hotel California" between repetitions. 3) Matter of fact, just play "Hotel California" for four straight hours. The crowd will demand that they have you back the next week. Every guy there, and probably 3/4 of the girls, will want to sleep with you. All at the same time. 4) If your computer crashes, have a backup. Many DJs have their go-to songs all on their iPod just in case they ever need to fall back on it. If you don't have an iPod, bring along any standard radio. Tune to a random station and, if the song makes you want to blues dance, change the station.
In fairness, that was snarkier than necessary and Apple Bottom Jeans is an awesome westie song. I love that FC embraces blues but gawd y'all are nubs :P Well, here's the water... come on, have a drink!
- James
Ben Yau tells a story to his students about how he was always a goofy dancer...but in hip hop and club dancing the goofier you dance...the goofier you look...and all the girls laugh at you. But in Swing, the goofier you dance the cooler you look, and all the girls adore you! ;-) He's right of course, and it's a great way to get students new and old to loosen up and just go for it.
So THAT's the reason all the guys stare at kickass swivels ... 'cause they're goofy
Got it
I'm just repeating the quip. It might not always be true, but it's a great reminder of something we tend to forget a lot.
Yeah, but if we didn't take ourselves so seriously, this dumb thread would only have 2 posts in it. And what would be the fun in that?
Martinis do not contain vodka. —Rachel Maddow
A to-the-mudder-fuggin men!
I absolutely admit this. It's why I only agree to attend/promote/talk about events that feature people I know are teaching the real stuff.
This is why BluesSHOUT was born. Now, if someone is a champion from BluesSHOUT, you know they're at the top of the scene.
SOOOOOOO true, and those bios never fail to kill me a little inside.
We're trying our best to offer alternatives and to make it clear which instructors really do know what they're doing, but we can't tell people to STOP teaching (unfortunately), so it's going to take some time to build up a certain critical mass.
As to the whole sexual/sensual argument about blues, my position is this. I should never be told that I HAVE to be sexy/sensual/emotionally connected/whatever other bull to someone just because I said yes to a dance. If it happens, cool. If it doesn't, that shouldn't mean I'm not doing the dance. I'm all for having hot and sexy dances, but I should never be EXPECTED to have one. I'm all for having deep, meaningful connections with people, but I shouldn't be EXPECTED to have that kind of connection with EVERY person I agree to dance with. That's just silly. And creepy. And wrong.
Those of us being called "purists" (which is funny) simply want to be able to dance without those expectations. We want to be able to teach the dance without having to tell people that the ONLY reason to dance is those things. Or that they SHOULD be seeking sexuality/sensuality in their dances. We're against forcing that aspect of the dance, rather than letting things happen naturally, however and whenever they will.
And Beckto - since when is having your legs together more suggestive than having your legs apart? Most strip clubs I've been to feature open legs, not closed legs. :dunno:
Meh, if I can't connect with someone I'm dancing with at some level (need not be sensual/sexual, but it needs to be something), I'm not likely to make a point of asking them to dance again. Much of the time this comes down to personalities and I believe everyone can't help but to dance their personality. This results in in a few fantastic follows that I just don't enjoy dancing with because we simply have nothing to say to each other dancewise, and some very inexperienced follows whom I adore dancing with.
So yes, for me I do have an expectation to connect in some way with every partner I dance with.
You can connect in a dance without it being sensual/sexual/deeply emotional.
If nothing else, you should at least connect to the music. Otherwise, why bother to dance?
This sort of dancing is very much inside the box, which is okay if that's your thing. I find that the music and connection in the sense that lindyhoppers use the term isn't necessary for dancing blues. Blues is a freer more spiritual dance that needn't be grounded by such artificial limitations. No steps, just emotions.
- James
I think you guys are being unfairly harsh on Lucky. He's a really creative, fun dancer with a lot to teach, in blues and everything else. I can only imagine that the college kids at Oberlin will love his style and teaching.
Just because he hasn't competed at BluesSHOUT, or whatever event you dancers deem important this week, doesn't mean he isn't a great dancer.
Gawd, that really pisses me off -- dancing, especially blues dancing specifically, doesn't exactly lend itself to a fruitful career, no matter how talented you are. There are lots of amazing dancers out there who don't get to spend their lives traveling and teaching, who would probably be waayy better than the teachers out there now.
This is how the whole damn Rock-Star thing builds up and out of control.
"If music be the food of love, play on!" - Shakespeare
Hate is an emotion, right? Man, I dance a LOT more than I thought I did. :)
Just b/c someone has a lot to teach, doesn't mean they should be teaching, especially group love micro-blues (ha!). And who cares if Lucky hasn't competed at BluesShout. Chris Ransdell competed there and that didn't raise my opinion of his dancing.
And this cracks me up. I know many dancers that are way better dancers than some of the blues instructors that are getting lots of gigs. Unfortunately, these better dancers are a)not promoting themselves as well b)not prostituting themselves to small scenes (there's still a ponytail bounty, America) c)or spending their time nurturing their home scenes. Frankly, I think the blues scene would have a healthier image, if some people were forced into "early retirement".
I'm sure you and Barack Osama spend all your time dancing with America, you terrorist-loving hippie!
- James
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