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  • Posted 4 years ago
  • by Swifty

Big Outstanding Oberlin Blues Spectacular Seriously, what the [bleep!]?

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  • Post #91
  • Originally posted Thursday, March 20, 2008 (4 years ago)

Obviously, a lot of people see the blues scene one way. They're not just listening to the hype, they're stating their observations.

If you're part of the blues scene, the burden is on YOU to change that opinion, if you dislike that particular take on it.

Getting antagonistic, defensive, and attacking people who are stating opinion and observation is a piss poor way to do that. In other words, you're not helping.

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  • Post #92
  • Originally posted Thursday, March 20, 2008 (4 years ago)

I'm not at all defensive Marcelo. I have nothing to do with the event whatsoever, if I did...I'd have suggested a different name to somebody.

Where do you see something that I've said that states otherwise? My comments are merely something different from the same old, same old that gets written here - I wondered out loud whether or not the people complaining were interested in just bitchin' or were willing to be the eye of reason for a bunch of college kids. That's all.

I can get some of my questions answered when I see Mihai tomorrow...

But I also see that BABBLE is coming up in May and I asked if people so (seemingly) anti-blues were going to treat that event (or at least the blues aspect) with such tempered distain.

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  • Post #93
  • Originally posted Thursday, March 20, 2008 (4 years ago)

DJ - We have to go through this exact same discussion every 6-12 months. Maybe this is Swifty's way of getting enough traffic on the board to make Manu finish the Yehoodi 3.0 upgrade.

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  • Post #94
  • Originally posted Thursday, March 20, 2008 (4 years ago)

I don't think anyone is necessarily offended by the BOOBS thing (if you are, lighten up). I do think it's a silly name and really unclassy, but that's what makes it funny. Within the wider context of blues dancing and the perception thereof, it's even funnier.

And you know what? I will treat BABBLE similarly. It has an equally stupid name. Maybe not as crass and juvenile, but definitely stupid.

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  • Post #95
  • Originally posted Thursday, March 20, 2008 (4 years ago)
Quoted from "Keither"
It's not like Yehoodi (and several other boards) aren't filled with threads upon threads of loudmouths (like me) expounding for pages and pages on what to do and not do at an exchange/workshop/late night party.

That's part of the problem with using Yehoodi and the like: Most of what you'll find are the "loudmouths" of the boards which aren't a fair representation of the forum community, which itself doesn't represent much of the overall dance community. To listen to the "loudmouths" would be to allow undo influence by what can only be honestly described as a very small subset of hardcore dance enthusiasts that by no means can be said to be a valid representation of the larger dance community. They wish to be exceptional and so they are the exception, not the rule.

WRT, "Cheap Thrills", of course the name is clearly intended as a comedic double entendre. To deny that intent Steven, is just silly. "Cheap Thrills" is a far more clever name then B.O.O.B.S. and I give the organizers much credit for that, but lets be honest here the sexual connotation is real and deliberate (if it's not deliberate the organizers are daft, which I don't believe). Thus it's valid to call out the hypocrisy of Cheap Thrills supporters denouncing the event title BOOBS. They can chide BOOBS for not being very clever, but not for the sexual overtone.

I really mean 'dance geek', which is a badge I wear with pride myself, but which some dance geeks may take offense to. ;-)

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  • Post #96
  • Originally posted Thursday, March 20, 2008 (4 years ago)
Quoted from "Marcelo"
Back when neoswing was huge you'd hear all the lindy hoppers saying that zoot suits and BBVD weren't "representative" of the swing community either, and they were wrong then because it WAS representative and real lindy hoppers were a minority. They managed to change the representation enough to make themselves right over time, though.

Right. And now instead of a booming scene that attracted people from all walks of life - including lindyhoppers, loungers, swoungers, zoot suit/neo swing fans, tourists, casual observers, and whoever else - who got to hang out in awesome venues with live music like Lansky, Windows on the World, Jack's Joint and Supper Club (all in one week), the "scene" has now devolved into a niche market where the " 1 weekly destination in New York" is a sweaty-ass dance studio with a DJ. Good victory.

The "representation" didn't change over time, except maybe by default. Everybody else just moved on to greener pastures. Thank God for people like the Jelly Roll folks who are still willing to make the effort to put out a quality product, but those types of events are few and far between.

Maybe with a little effort, the budding Blues Scene could be spared the horror of actually developing and growing into something that lots of people from different walks of life, and different reasons for being there, would be interested in and could go directly into the sweaty-ass asexual studio format right now. I'm so there. :thumbup:

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  • Post #97
  • Originally posted Thursday, March 20, 2008 (4 years ago)
Quoted from "Keither"
DJ - We have to go through this exact same discussion every 6-12 months. Maybe this is Swifty's way of getting enough traffic on the board to make Manu finish the Yehoodi 3.0 upgrade.

Yes, and the reason the discussion ressurects itself every 6 months is that the general opinion of the scene is not improving, regardless of whats actually happening.

I mean, I absolutely love Ogden, Amanda, Heidi, etc. Its not a pot shot at them, or the events where good things are happening. We're just not SEEING it, because to us its all blending together in to one humpy beaver clamp. Whenever someone points out whats wrong, both sides get in to a shouting match and nothing gets resolved.

The fact remains, in order to stop this cycle, the blues scene is going to have to lay a serious smackdown on its own folks who ARE doing the humpy crap that we're all still seeing, as well as being much more vocal about denouncing it. As long as nothing changes in that respect, none of our opinions of the scene will either.

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  • Post #98
  • Originally posted Thursday, March 20, 2008 (4 years ago)
Quoted from "DJLarkin"
Obviously, a lot of people see the blues scene one way. They're not just listening to the hype, they're stating their observations. If you're part of the blues scene, the burden is on YOU to change that opinion, if you dislike that particular take on it. Getting antagonistic, defensive, and attacking people who are stating opinion and observation is a piss poor way to do that. In other words, you're not helping.

DJ, there is also a way of approaching this subject constructively. This thread just feels like people are getting way too much enjoyment reveling in the the blues community's misfortune.

The tone feels like: "Did you see that that big pimple on Betty's nose. She looks aweful! And did you see her face when brett pointed it out in front of the entire class!" :::laugh:::

I'm not even a "blues dancer," and that's how it is coming across to me.

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  • Post #99
  • Originally posted Thursday, March 20, 2008 (4 years ago)
Quoted from "tommyd76"
2) Addict, Ass is not a dirty term. Ass is a word that (from my perspective and what I have gleaned from instruction) represents heavy grounded, hip motion. Someone who really does swivels well in a swingout may do them with ass.

Fair point. However, the main thrust(heh, get it) of my post was about Cheap Thrills.

And with regards to Mihai:

  1. If one states one is a national Blues instructor and
  2. One gets hired across the country as a Blues instructor than
  3. One can credibly claim to be a national Blues instructor

Perhaps he doesn't meet that criteria, honestly I don't know.

FTR, there have been people who have been 'national Lindy Hop instructors' and who have taught stuff across the country that I found regrettable(no I won't bring up names).

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  • Post #100
  • Originally posted Thursday, March 20, 2008 (4 years ago)
Quoted from "DJLarkin"
The fact remains, in order to stop this cycle, the blues scene is going to have to lay a serious smackdown on its own folks who ARE doing the humpy crap that we're all still seeing, as well as being much more vocal about denouncing it. As long as nothing changes in that respect, none of our opinions of the scene will either.

I thought that was what we were doing in this thread. We're being vocal about denouncing it, we're talking about why it's not what we see as being the real scene, what more do you want? Public floggings?

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  • Post #101
  • Originally posted Thursday, March 20, 2008 (4 years ago)

I didn't DENY anything Byron. I said I really didn't know, nor did I care. I don't recall seeing you there to offer conjecture on what the "meaning" of Cheap Thrills may have been for a lindy/blues event back in April 2002. Of course, I can say today - Cheap Thrills, despite costing HALF what the big exchange cost, must have been brimming with entendre...sure. Feel better now?

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  • Post #102
  • Originally posted Thursday, March 20, 2008 (4 years ago)
Quoted from "Wexie"
DJ, there is also a way of approaching this subject constructively. This thread just feels like people are getting way too much enjoyment reveling in the the blues community's misfortune. The tone feels like: "Did you see that that big pimple on Betty's nose. She looks aweful! And did you see her face when brett pointed it out in front of the entire class!" :::laugh::: I'm not even a "blues dancer," and that's how it is coming across to me.

Oh, you're not mistaken in that impression. Not at all.

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  • Post #103
  • Originally posted Thursday, March 20, 2008 (4 years ago)
Quoted from "Beckto"
(I don't think Keifer is really an a-hole... even though he likes "blues dancing.")

Actually he likes blues dancing. Stop putting quotes around it if you honestly think there's no difference with or without them.

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  • Post #104
  • Originally posted Thursday, March 20, 2008 (4 years ago)

Spot on Chivalrous.

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  • Post #105
  • Originally posted Thursday, March 20, 2008 (4 years ago)

yes, public floggings, the would solve everything. But seriously, I can't think of anyone in the lindy or blues scene that I know that can hear a blues song and honestly say it does not bring about leg humping. It's the nature of the music. The majority of blues songs are about sex, alcohol, food, and dancing.

I may not live there anymore, but my dancing feet will always be from L.A.

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  • Post #106
  • Originally posted Thursday, March 20, 2008 (4 years ago)

In all honesty, we leaders in the blues community have enough to do without having to constantly fend off indictments from Yehoodites who KNOW that there's a basis to what we're trying to accomplish.

It'd be great if we could get a little support in fighting the good fight against bad dancing instead of getting laughed at.

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  • Post #107
  • Originally posted Thursday, March 20, 2008 (4 years ago)
Quoted from "sdswinger"
The majority of blues songs are about sex, alcohol, food, and dancing.

How about these lindy songs: Keep On Churnin' All That Meat And No Potatoes Frim Fram Sauce One Bourbon, One Scotch, One Beer

Shall I go on? The double entendre is present in all of the music we dance to, blues or "swing". (Never mind that most of the "swing" music we listen to is blues anyway.) Let's also not talk about the Charleston or why the ladies would kick so high. yawn Old hat. Srsly.

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  • Post #108
  • Originally posted Thursday, March 20, 2008 (4 years ago)

Sex...alcohol...food...dancing...

LOL...that's probably true, even the instrumentals are just plain hot! By the time you get to the words...all hell's breaking loose...

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  • Post #109
  • Originally posted Thursday, March 20, 2008 (4 years ago)
Quoted from "sdswinger"
yes, public floggings, the would solve everything. But seriously, I can't think of anyone in the lindy or blues scene that I know that can hear a blues song and honestly say it does not bring about leg humping. It's the nature of the music. The majority of blues songs are about sex, alcohol, food, and dancing.

That crazy jazz music just makes you want to drink and smoke and get high. It'll drive all the kids crazy!!!! It's just the nature of the music. (and I've never done any leg humping, except maybe as a joke)

Is blues music sensual? Yes. It's also painful, mournful, happy, praiseful, fun, sad, happy, and any number of other emotions. To boil it all down to sex is simplistic at best.

And if those are the only themes you've heard, you've really only heard songs about sex. Songs about food and alcohol are NEVER about food or alcohol. ;)

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  • Post #110
  • Originally posted Thursday, March 20, 2008 (4 years ago)

Also, Tim, since the folks in Utah have to dance with the magic underwear on, perhaps leg humping is the best they can do. Why you gotta hate on the LDS?

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  • Post #111
  • Originally posted Thursday, March 20, 2008 (4 years ago)

Great post Chiv.

Do you know how awkward it is to have a political argument with a naked man?

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  • Post #112
  • Originally posted Thursday, March 20, 2008 (4 years ago)
Quoted from "Keither"
Quoted from "sdswinger"
The majority of blues songs are about sex, alcohol, food, and dancing.
How about these lindy songs: Keep On Churnin' All That Meat And No Potatoes Frim Fram Sauce One Bourbon, One Scotch, One Beer Shall I go on? The double entendre is present in all of the music we dance to, blues or "swing". (Never mind that most of the "swing" music we listen to is blues anyway.) Let's also not talk about the Charleston or why the ladies would kick so high. yawn Old hat. Srsly.

For what it's worth, I don't really consider any of those songs actual "swing" music. But anyway, I do agree with you. Maybe I should have been more broad in my examples. :dunno:

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  • Post #113
  • Originally posted Thursday, March 20, 2008 (4 years ago)
Quoted from "Wexie"
Quoted from "DJLarkin"
Obviously, a lot of people see the blues scene one way. They're not just listening to the hype, they're stating their observations. If you're part of the blues scene, the burden is on YOU to change that opinion, if you dislike that particular take on it. Getting antagonistic, defensive, and attacking people who are stating opinion and observation is a piss poor way to do that. In other words, you're not helping.
DJ, there is also a way of approaching this subject constructively. This thread just feels like people are getting way too much enjoyment reveling in the the blues community's misfortune. The tone feels like: "Did you see that that big pimple on Betty's nose. She looks aweful! And did you see her face when brett pointed it out in front of the entire class!" :::laugh::: I'm not even a "blues dancer," and that's how it is coming across to me.

Because at this point, the entire discussion has been rehashed so many times that its become a big fat joke.

Nothing's changed, ball is in their court.

Quoted from "petalscutiegirl"
DJLarkin wrote: The fact remains, in order to stop this cycle, the blues scene is going to have to lay a serious smackdown on its own folks who ARE doing the humpy crap that we're all still seeing, as well as being much more vocal about denouncing it. As long as nothing changes in that respect, none of our opinions of the scene will either. I thought that was what we were doing in this thread. We're being vocal about denouncing it, we're talking about why it's not what we see as being the real scene, what more do you want? Public floggings?

As many people have pointed out, you're wasting your breath on yehoodi. Thats not motivating change in the slightest. We post on yehoodi to a vocal minority of the scene, and it has little impact. Posts on yehoodi are more of a social commentary than a vehicle for change.

What needs to be done is at the basic level at the events themselves. As long as people continue to act one way, and others continue to observe that act, no amount of eloquence on yehoodi is going to sway the opinion of anyone.

Quoted from "Keither"
In all honesty, we leaders in the blues community have enough to do without having to constantly fend off indictments from Yehoodites who KNOW that there's a basis to what we're trying to accomplish.

They don't know, or at least it sounds like hollow rhetoric to a lot of people. Its hard to believe when they don't see any actual changes.

Admit there's a problem, identify solutions, extend an olive branch and try to be less openly hostile with people who point out that problem and relations between the two communities will go a long way. Even if the people attacking the scene are being unfair, in your opinion, what good does attacking back do to your cause? The rabidly defensive posts from the blues camp is not helping.

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  • Post #114
  • Originally posted Thursday, March 20, 2008 (4 years ago)
Quoted from "Keither"
Also, Tim, since the folks in Utah have to dance with the magic underwear on, perhaps leg humping is the best they can do. Why you gotta hate on the LDS?

Nice...actually I play blues music at swing events here just for my own amusement. It's hilarious to watch the LDS kids try to figure out what to do with this song. Anyway, I moved here for the skiing, if it was for the dancing I would have left after two weeks.

I may not live there anymore, but my dancing feet will always be from L.A.

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  • Post #115
  • Originally posted Thursday, March 20, 2008 (4 years ago)
Quoted from "Zenin"
Spot on Chivalrous.

Do you see this in Los Angeles as well?

you just got to listen to the music, 'cause it's talkin' to you man! -frankie http://www.zazzle.com/anarchyforpresident

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  • Post #116
  • Originally posted Thursday, March 20, 2008 (4 years ago)
Quoted from "DJLarkin"
Admit there's a problem, identify solutions, extend an olive branch and try to be less openly hostile with people who point out that problem and relations between the two communities will go a long way. Even if the people attacking the scene are being unfair, in your opinion, what good does attacking back do to your cause? The rabidly defensive posts from the blues camp is not helping.

So we have to be more vocal in denouncing them, but by doing that we're being rabidly defensive? Sounds like a classic double bind to me.

And people in the scene ARE creating solutions and implementing them. We're creating HUGE events at which none of this stuff is emphasized, we're bringing in big names who are respected by lindy hoppers and blues dancers alike, we're building local scenes that aren't characterized by this kind of stupid stuff.

But we can't tell these people to stop throwing these events. We can offer alternatives, we can refuse to go to events we think are misguided, we can not be involved with people who repeatedly involved themselves in this type of approach. And we do. It's never right. No matter what tact the leaders of the blues camp take, it's not the right one. If we try to handle things in house, we're criticized for not denouncing things more vocally. If we go into public forums and state our disapproval and the distinction between true blues dancing and "blues," we're called defensive.

So what now? Do we hire hitmen to kill off the people whose business practices we disapprove of? Do we beat our heads against a wall trying to convince you all that we're doing enough or that we're not like that or that you're wrong? Does it even matter?

You come on and in the course of a page state that we need to both be more vocal and less defensive. Yet, most of what's happened on this thread has been very calm and rational. It's focused more on distancing ourselves from a section of the community we disagree with and on pointing out that our situation is hardly unique.

We're trying. We really are. But it doesn't matter because you won't change your mind.

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  • Post #117
  • Originally posted Thursday, March 20, 2008 (4 years ago)

DJ, you said:

Admit there's a problem, identify solutions, extend an olive branch and try to be less openly hostile with people who point out that problem and relations between the two communities will go a long way. Even if the people attacking the scene are being unfair, in your opinion, what good does attacking back do to your cause? The rabidly defensive posts from the blues camp is not helping.

PetalsCutieGirl said this back on page 2:

Trust me when I say that events like this upset and disgust me MORE than most of you simply because I know what blues dancing really is and really should be. Events like this make it harder for real, legitimate blues dancing to thrive because they (rightly) put off people who don't need dancing to interact with members of the opposite sex.

Now I don't know what more you'd want someone to say...

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  • Post #118
  • Originally posted Thursday, March 20, 2008 (4 years ago)
Quoted from "Zenin"
Spot on Chivalrous.
Quoted from "pill_popper"
Do you see this in Los Angeles as well?

Totally, but there are TONS of reasons why LA dancing has dwindled since then, the LEAST of which is the stuff Chiv is talking about. I'd even venture to say that it has nothing to do with that at all.

For years and years LA had a wonderful and vibrant dance scene that incorporated all the best elements of swing dancing. The reason that's no longer the case has more to do with time and trends than it does with whether or not we excluded neoswingers.

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  • Post #119
  • Originally posted Thursday, March 20, 2008 (4 years ago)
Quoted from "petalscutiegirl"
...what more do you want? Public floggings?

well, at least until moral improves, heh.

on a different note, I think there's a significant location factor involved in this perception of blues. The style of blues danced in San Francisco has been around much longer than any blues done here on the east coast. Considering that weekly blues venues/instruction has only been happening for a little over a year over here (i thought LaB was the first, but I don't know when Ogden &amp; Amanda started Independently Blues up in Boston; MondayNite blues in NYC only got on its feet last spring), I think it's accurate to say that we're a little behind the cultural shift. This seems like a much more plausible explanation of what Swifty &amp; DJLarkin's experiences have been in NYC and DC compared to petalscutiegirl in SF.

Despite the fact that it's easier to travel from coast to coast now than ever before, these kinds of changes still take a while to diffuse.

In a similar note, (and this is the first time i've mentioned this in a public forum) this is one of the reasons I'm so disappointed that BluesSHOUT was moved out to San Francisco. I'm sure there are many many logistical reasons for moving it west, but it means I (and likely most people from the southeast and northeast) can't go because of the time and expense it takes to travel out there.

Cheap Thrills 2006 and BluesSHOUT were pivotal experiences in my blues development. In large part it was because there were dancers from CA, the northwest, chicago, the southeast, &amp; the northeast. St. Louis was reasonably accessible by all those locations. IMO, it was where a lot of dance knowledge/culture/style/whathaveyou got transferred to new geographic areas.

Anyway, I'd say that blues is changing and growing, and the perceptions of it are changing and growing. it's just happening a bit slowly over here.

Lindy and Blues: Tuesdays, Philadelphia

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  • Post #120
  • Originally posted Thursday, March 20, 2008 (4 years ago)
Quoted from "Keither"
In all honesty, we leaders in the blues community have enough to do without having to constantly fend off indictments from Yehoodites who KNOW that there's a basis to what we're trying to accomplish. It'd be great if we could get a little support in fighting the good fight against bad dancing instead of getting laughed at.

Hmm...making a baby on the dance floor may not be your personal cup of tea, but it's a bit of a stretch to label it all universally as "bad dancing". Much more bad dancing I've seen has been asexual rather then sexual. How's that saying go again, "If you aren't flirting you aren't really dancing."


Lets back up a moment: Why is it a bad thing to link blues dancing with sexuality?

The WCS and Salsa dancers largely revel in the association, much to their benifit. Blues seems at least as intrinsically sexual in nature as WCS and Salsa (I'd argue far, far more so then either). Most everyone, dancer or laymen, who watches most any good blues dancing sees it clear as day. Does it make sense to try and convince people that, no, really, it's mostly an asexual dance...when that argument will never match what their eyes can clearly see? And even if you can...why is castrating blues considered a positive thing that needs to be encouraged? How exactly would that be a win for the scene?

(please note I see a huge distinction between sexual and creepy)

If you want asexual there's always collegiate shag; a totally bad ass dance that's only slightly more sexual then clogging. ;-)

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